love at first sight ?

[Guest grandad]

we have an image in our mind of what turns us on, now and then the image in our mind becomes a reality.

[Stuffed Tiger]

No other songs captures how I feel (felt) about the woman I should have stayed with better than this....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzkhOmKVW08

Every Time I hear it I'm instantly transported to a time when I'm just looking into her eyes.

[digger 1649]

i couldnt look my wife in the eyes,

so ive explained myself to her, and now ive moved out.

if im to have my hearts desire, then things have to be right. right ?

all i can do now is get on with my life, and in time ? who knows ? it feels right !

i'm gonna do this too !,but i dont think i'll regret it.

thanks UK420 i 'know' i love you too

Hats off to you digger for doing this the right way. So many others would have hedged their bets and behaved in a much less honourable way.

I wish you all happiness for your future

thanks Thicky, my head has been messy for about two years,

'the grass is always greener' has been my mantra for most of that time.

but i dont think it did any good,and betrayal isnt my style,

and i know if i was in the mind of my sweet,(she is a Goddess ! by the way )

me beytraying my wife, wouldnt be.

so i was left only one option, really ?

now i have to just get on with life and hope my Sweet 'Rhiannon' comesback for me.

in a few weeks i will know if i wait in vain for her love, its painfull, it hurts to have to wait but !

i can't have people getting the wrong impression, you know ! Things have to be right !

i mean the local 'Alpha Male' has to set a good example, yeah ?

now its just a waiting game

now my head is full of what might be ?

[Guest Thicky]

now my head is full of what might be ?

That kind of love is everything and I am sure you are dreaming beautiful dreams. We are all waiting for the happy ending now.

[digger 1649]

i feel i have experienced love at first sight three times now,

1st time That girl ! in that club, many moons ago,

2nd time when my son was born,

3rd time when i saw This girl !

does that count as three ?

i dunno ? she makes me feel like a king !

great tune Stuffed Tiger,(happens to be one i learned to busk on Boojums guitar )

dont remember it with a frown mate, remember it with a smile,

there's another out there, will make you feel the same way, probably better !

why i never got her number back then i'll never know ? i was just in Awe.

and i have kicked myself so bad for it,thought of the times we could of had,

but really, if we had got it together back then,

i would of surely f##ked it up good style. so maybe there are reasons mate.

just gotta have faith in the future !

personally, i ask the universe for help, and she responds.

ive never noticed any signs that have been sent from heaven,

maybe i wasnt looking right ?

but the day i told my wife how i felt and that we should seperate,

after the pain, heartache and tears, there were no sad songs on my radio.

just positive vibes all the way !

cheers Thicky ill let you know in a couple of weeks !

sonnet 116 by 'willy shake spear' worth a read if you dont know it !

(ive even been reading and writing poetry ! summuts up !)

my TV is gutted !

Edited August 27, 2012 by digger 1649

[digger 1649]

to keep this tread in the right forum,

i'm thinking 'love at first sight' is a 'conciousness' thing ?

as much as a physical attraction thing ?

me and my wife at the time we met, were attracted to each other,and in a similiar place conciously,

by the time my son was born that had changed,

my subconsious new, if my mind didnt.

but i had my vision of how things should be(or play the game existance to the end ),

and my wife shared that vision,she must have done, or else she would have dropped me years ago.

instead she threw herself into collage and then uni.

that vision has changed for both of us.we both want different things now.

she's in her last year at uni and thankfully although painfull,

i think she agree's and knows its for the best.

when i look back its written through out our relationship,

you can see when our paths changed !

we came to a junction and with out either of us knowing it, took differing paths,

it just took a few years for our minds to catch up !

i think we've both had the Doh ! moment, i have

and now things look more positive,for all of us.

are we still in the right section ?

have we got an agony aunt section Joolz ?

cheers mate !