I would add
Katsu, off the track but worth it
Yo Yo, off the track but near the Depijp (or whatever the name is) market. It has bio and grown in the open weed.
Usual ones: Amnesia, 420. Very commercial and after the beforementioned not so good: greenhouse and barneys.
Get a bicycle as soon as you arrive. Do not think too much about it

Clubs: Paradiso and meelkweg.
Food: wok to walk, foodism and an indian on haarleemstrat.
Guide: Get lost. But be carefull and get the latest edition wich is...the revised 11th.
Museums: rijks, van gogh